Chris Keen Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Please say a prayer for my mother. 2 years ago she had a stroke, and has been in a nursing home since. She hasn't said 2 words in that time, and doesn't recognize even her own family. It's been a really tough 2 years for all us kids, but first and foremost, I feel for my father. He has been married to the sweetest woman for the last 65 years, and she was his rock. She did everything from cooking & grocery shopping, to balancing the checkbook, and all he ever had to do was go to work & help her raise 5 kids. Now, he has been cooking & doing his best to balance the checkbook, bless his heart. He tries to be strong, but I can tell it's been an awful lot for him to see her like this. I hate to say this, but I kind of hope God ends both of their anguish soon enough with mercy & Grace, as I hate to see my Mom hang on much longer like this. It's a terrible thing to see your loved ones, but not quite know whether they see you back. I went to see her tonite, and as I sat there holding her hand, I told her all the things I appreciated about my childhood & teenage years ... all the things they worked hard to provide for me ...... all the things I took for granted when I was young & dumb ..... and how much it meant to me, both then & now ... and how I have always tried very hard to make her proud of me. I want to stay with her through this weekend, but I made a commitment to shoot the Alabama Sect. this Saturday, so I told her I was dedicating this match to her & that I would be back in 3 days to see her this Sunday. I hope God gives us fast & smooth traffic, good weather, and gets me home safely so I can see her again. Please pray for her & also for my Dad, to give them both the strength they need to get through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlamoShooter Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I know your pain peace Brother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarge Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris, You have to KNOW that we are praying for you in the Sanders house. Believe it or not you are fortunate in that you are with your mom during this time. I lost my mom and my dad while serving in the Army. I was not home with them when they passed. I would have given anything to hold my mom's hand during her final days. Take care brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny7 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Saying a prayer right now that Gods will be done in your family. And good luck at the match, Johnny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merlin Orr Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Prayers for your Mom and all of the family, Chris...... Stay strong in your faith. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bwana Six-Gun Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris, I have been through this twice. It does not get easier. Be strong and know that your mom will know you love her. My condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spanky Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Sorry to hear this, Chris. You and your family will definitely be in my prayers. I know all too well how it is to lose a parent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maksim Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Prayers for you and your family Chris. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Santiago Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Very sorry to hear this Chris. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim Rusert Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Prayers sent, Chris. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lugnut Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris- you and your family have my prayers. The best to you at the sectionals as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outerlimits Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris-i will pray. enjoy the time you have left with your mother. These are real tough times...been there and it's not a fun time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dsb45acp Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris, I don't have the words or skills to be of any comfort to you, your father or family. So I will just offer my prayers that you all have peace, comfort & closure through this ordeal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nik Habicht Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Prayers sent for your folks and your siblings, and for you. I'm also praying that you find some moments of peace and quiet at the Sectional this weekend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sean Gaines Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Please say a prayer for my mother. 2 years ago she had a stroke, and has been in a nursing home since. She hasn't said 2 words in that time, and doesn't recognize even her own family. It's been a really tough 2 years for all us kids, but first and foremost, I feel for my father. He has been married to the sweetest woman for the last 65 years, and she was his rock. She did everything from cooking & grocery shopping, to balancing the checkbook, and all he ever had to do was go to work & help her raise 5 kids. Now, he has been cooking & doing his best to balance the checkbook, bless his heart. He tries to be strong, but I can tell it's been an awful lot for him to see her like this. I hate to say this, but I kind of hope God ends both of their anguish soon enough with mercy & Grace, as I hate to see my Mom hang on much longer like this. It's a terrible thing to see your loved ones, but not quite know whether they see you back. I went to see her tonite, and as I sat there holding her hand, I told her all the things I appreciated about my childhood & teenage years ... all the things they worked hard to provide for me ...... all the things I took for granted when I was young & dumb ..... and how much it meant to me, both then & now ... and how I have always tried very hard to make her proud of me. I want to stay with her through this weekend, but I made a commitment to shoot the Alabama Sect. this Saturday, so I told her I was dedicating this match to her & that I would be back in 3 days to see her this Sunday. I hope God gives us fast & smooth traffic, good weather, and gets me home safely so I can see her again. Please pray for her & also for my Dad, to give them both the strength they need to get through this. I very sorry to hear about this. Our thoughts and prayers will be going out to you and your family for the stregnth to get through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spankymac Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Chris, We will have you and your family in our prayers. Travel safe Banks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobmysterious Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 She's in my prayers. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jriera Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I very sorry to hear about this. I have been through this twice. It doesn't get easier. Let her know you love her, take good care of your dad. Our thoughts are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wild Gene Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Wow that is the pits. I miss my mom every day. Take care, you and your family... WG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimmyZip Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You got it Chris. Prayers sent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norbs007 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Your family will be in our prayers Chris, do take care man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flack jacket Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Thoughts and prayers with you and your family. DVC Edrick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikegot38 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitedog Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Prayers sent my friend. May the lord hold you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sfchorn Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Wishing you and your family strength during this difficult time. Having been through something similar when I lost my mom, this brought tears to my eyes. When she passed, I was grateful that she was at peace. Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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