Forget the gloves, after "my" I would have given you a FTDR for swearing at the RO. I believe you should stick up for yourself, but not with profanity.
Go for it...I was already on my way out the door. Handing out bogus FTDR's and stacking them on when a shooter sticks up for himself isn't good for business. The match director's job is to sell entertainment, and to follow the rule book. If he's not doing one or the other (or neither, in the case of some matches I've been to) the customers will find another match to shoot or game to play.