Don't know if this Danish brand is available in Holland, but i've think they are one of the most lightweight you will find
Not cheap though.
https://airtox.dk/collections/transam-range/tx2-safety-shoes/
Wich production gun do you have now, if its a tanfoglio it could make sense to buy the Dominans in ordre for ease of same magazines/pouch/spareparts etc.
I've had the same problem loading 9mm rounds on my 550 - my issue where sizing die touching the shellplate and lifting it up, adjusting the die crooket bullets went away.