OpenDot Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 That is all! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogiebb Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Sorry to hear about that... been through it 5 years ago hope everything gets better . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pat Miles Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 (edited) Went through one 10 years ago. Wifey wanted to take a management position anywhere her company offered one. The success at her job was more important than our marriage or our son. I kept, in order of importance, my son, the house, my retirement, majority of our savings, two of the three cars, all of my guns, shop machines, furniture, etc.. I signed her papers and was not represented by an attorney so after she moved back east and tried to drag me back into court for her share of everything the judge told her it would never happen. She was pissed! She remarried a guy who after a year decided he didn't want to work anymore. She divorced him and then found out that he made a living of scamming women and ended up having to write him a $2K check every month for two years to keep him living in the fashion he had become accustomed to. She's working on her fifth marriage. Sorry for the protracted reply. Keep your head up, don't do anything stupid and things will get better. Pat Edited August 3, 2011 by Pat Miles Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neomet Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 (edited) Sorry man. Flameout number one was 19 years ago after 14 years of marriage, the second was 9 years ago after 4. All I can tell you is that what felt like some of the worst days of my life were in the end, nothing more than steps on the path that led me to the most amazing, perfect woman in the world and the best 7 and still counting years of my life, period. Edited August 3, 2011 by Neomet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whitedog Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Sorry. Been there twice. It sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boz1911 Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 No such thing as a good divorce. Been through 3 and they all sucked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Merricks Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Yes it does suck. Sorry for what you are going through. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigpops Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Prison ain't so bad! (just kidding...take it one day at a time) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickJ Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 It doesn't get any better with practice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrumpyOne Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Damn, Randy. Sorry to hear about that. Just remember, it will probably get worse before it gets better, so prepare for that. If you need someone to talk to, call me..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe4d Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 (edited) been there twice when my last x left she stuck me with a horse, realized I was way better off, now I am happy. Edited August 3, 2011 by Joe4d Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Attila Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Prison ain't so bad! (just kidding...take it one day at a time) Take life one day at a time, or the poison? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OpenDot Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Thanks guys. All property has been settled I keep everything that's mine. She wants the house ...I've been beggin to move for 5 years . I file the papers friday and file legal separation at the same time so im protected during this ordeal. Im fine with it but it still sucks non the less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitman Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 It dose get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim Norman Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 It sucks, but it ends. Mine was 20 years ago and life has been good the second time around. Before, during and immediately after it SUCKED. Just keep your head screwed on tight and keep it together for the first year. After that start over with a lot of the knowledge you gained the hard way to help guide you the next time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ogiebb Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 just shoot more matches to help forget about it : ) Theres one in Phoenix Tom Morning... see you there. August Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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