How much radius does your firing pin stop have? I like them like this:
I would also measure slide travel with and without a recoil spring to confirm the spring us not binding, try a 17# main and 10# recoil.
Lastly just by looking at it, it looks like the majority of the weight is taken from the front of the slide, in my experience that makes for a more flippy, violent impulse, so taking some weight from the rear could help.
It you don't want to cut it you could always sell it and buy an Edge.