Come on darkvibe, that's not very sciency of you . There are plenty of ways to determine how hard they are, how about weighting them? measuring them? melting them down and analyzing the metal?
If you're not interested enough to look into it just say so, but to say there's just no other way is a disservice to rational empiricism.
I'll admit I've heard enough anecdotal evidence to be curious, but as I load 9 major with Winchester SPP and have never had issues with breach face erosion or light strikes, my motivation is low.