Dave,
I'm going to risk coming off as a jerk and give it to you straight:
"arthritis in my hands"
"looking for the most manageable recoil possible"
"I do not have the time or patience to handload"
"no time to fiddle with things"
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but Open is not for you I shoot Open, I LOVE to fidlde with guns/loads, I'm young, strong and I still get pains in my hands from time to time.
"my eyes are becoming old fart eyes, so I find a red dot a lot easier to work with"
Don't fret, USPSA has just created Carry Optics specifically for you