You have a healthy respect for this endeavor, great start!
#34 primers definitely NOT required
The manuals cant cover every single combination, but as long as you are starting a bit below max charges and using a projectile of same weight and composition (cant sub cast for jacketed), you should be perfectly safe.
You are absolutely on the right track. The biggest issue with self-loading .308 is appropriate cartridge dimensions, overall length, headspace, case length, case-body diameter, etc. Some platforms more fussy than others.
Second is appropriate pressure curve and gas volume, determined primarily by powder selection, and again some actions pickier than others.