BrianTN Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 (edited) So, a small group of people I thought were good friends are apparently spreading bad rumors about me behind my back. I have no idea where this came from, and thought I had a pretty good friendship with them for the past 2 years. I confronted one of them about it, but he wouldn't give me a reason why. What's worse is we started working in a new hospital I might apply to for residency. Hopefully the attending physicians I work with don't hear this stuff and have it affect them writing a letter of recommendation for me. Guess it's time to find some new friends. And that's why I'm sitting at home on a Saturday night. And it sucks I can't buy a pistol in Michigan, having just moved here. Can't wait to visit family back in TN this winter so I can pick up a Glock 21sf or a 1911. Edited October 9, 2010 by BrianTN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AzShooter Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 Brian people come and go but true friends will be there forever. I count very few people in the FRIEND category and a lot of people that I know. If you feel good about yourself that's what's important. If people spread lies just let them blow off you. You know they aren't true and so will your real friends. Good luck and keep at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sean Gaines Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 If they are talking about someone else in front of you, they are probably talking about you to someone else. this stuff happens to everyone. the only time it works, is when you get effected or emotional hurt by it. whats the saying, "If you want a friend get dog.." Not all people are this way. Everyone talks about everyone, so just grow some tough skin chief, and get some better friends. you will be alright. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twodownzero Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 It's even happened to me on this very forum. I wouldn't sweat it. When you find out, you get to learn who your real friends are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gameplayer Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 A mind conscious of innocence laughs at the lies of rumor. Uk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canuck223 Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Part of life is learning to identify the fragile, vain, and drama queens among us, and limiting your exposure to them. Some folks just seem to live for the big story or event, and I choose not to be that topic of conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pat Miles Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Make like a duck and don't ever forget. I worked with a couple of snakes years ago who wanted the job I had. They would go drink coffee or beer with every new boss we ever had and about a month later I would get sent to a different job. Funny thing, about 3 months later the new boss would want me back in my old position to pull his cajones out of the hot sand. The last boss was such a arrogant bastard I refused to move back. He was fired about 4 months after that. Sweet revenge. Pat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Singlestack Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 This Hate rant has turned into a discussion, which is beyond the bounds of the rules for the Hate Forum. Thus, it must be closed. Please review the Hate Forum Rules: http://www.brianenos.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=8097 [note: this is a generic response] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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