BEFORE the press arrived, the wife was all over "Absolutely I'm going to help! You load yours, I'll load mine." The we got the press installed and running, and she took a shot at her first batch. NOW it's "You seem to enjoy the technical aspects of loading, and I wouldn't want to deprive you of that, so if you want to do mine, too, I don't have a problem with it".
I knew it was too good to be true....