I was thinking it was .011 deeper, but I could be mistaken.
And guys have used 7.62x39 bolts in Grendel barreled rifles. No, I don't think it's a very good idea, but it has been done. Especially now that you have guys loading and fire-forming 7.62x39 brass (also not my first choice).
Regarding your pressure testing. On paper it would make sense that your 30 Major would have a lighter pressure spike, and I will take you at your word. You have done your homework. I read some of your posts on other forums a few years back, and found your wildcatting the 6.5G interesting. I just forgot who you were. You have something to bring to the table. So for pulling your cousin's girlfriend's sister's husband into this conversation, I apologize.
Still, I don't think it's fair of you to make a blanket statement about the "common" bolt problems in 6.5G rifles using barrels and bolts made to Alexander's specs. Especially when you have your own horse in this race. I've followed Arne Brennan's project since 2004 when I first got wind of it. A lot has changed over the years.
Frankly, I think there is room for both 6.5G and 30 Major, and I don't see the two cartridges as direct competitors. And as for a strictly 3-gun use rifle, particularly the context of this thread, the 6.5G would not be my first choice.