Long story short, I have used these factory mags with factory grips and it's fine. Did not function with the mag well. Came home and was able to recreate the issue with blanks. (Peels first round starting from open slide, doesn't load anything else)
Proceeded to use a factory p10 basepad(which looks dimensionally identical to the dwx basepad) and modify it to cut off the rounded nose and add a generous chamfer on the top. Could no longer recreate the problem and every round loaded fine.
I'll confirm at the range when I get a chance.