This is an interesting thread. So I am not a real hot shooter, and compared to some of you folks, am very new to competition, and yes am an NROI RO. I work long hours and spend lots of time away from my family. So why bother to run matches?
I really enjoy this sport. Whether I'm great or not is less relevant to me than having the pleasure of shooting, particularly with other shooters. When I took the IPSC Black Badge course, I had two instructors. First day, first guy was a complete dick. A consumate professional at driving people out of the sport. Second day, a person who was genuinely interested in having another member of the competitive community, being safe and having fun. I decided at that time that I had a choice to either be a positive face to the sport, or some arrogant bozo. I picked positive, but a whole whack of others take it as a power trip.
I get great satisfaction out of seeing new shooters come off a course and say "man that was tough but it was fun", or seasoned pros come off a course and say that "that was cool, it wasn't the same old hose and go. You had to think the course through" I design courses and RO matches because I get personal satisfaction out of watching the other shooters have fun. Some days I shoot well, others not. But even on a bad day, having someone on one of the squads really enjoy it is very fulfilling.
As a confessed non-expert, I get damn tired of the rule interpretation lawyers and the "the fault line isn't bolted down with 42 foot lag bolts and could move and that wouldn't be fair" waawaa artists. Last I checked this was a sport, ie game. If you want to be a lawyer go practice law. If you want to whine about life's inherent unfairness, go read James Gleick's book on Chaos Theory and then be under the 5pm train. it ain't fair, it ain't equal and it cannot be. Ever.
Or, go out, shoot, meet some nice people, talk about mutual interests, have fun. We're all a long time dead, why make strife? Encourage a new shooter or recognize an exceptional performance. You really do get back what you put out.
Of course wtf do I know, I'm one of those darn Match guys.....