Just my 2 cents - I have 147 Berry's at 1.140" OAL and they load into both my Shadow and Shadow 2. The ogive on the Berry's is pretty good as I ran them in my XDM, Glock and SA 1911. Great all purpose bullets.
The coated bullets tend not to be as consistent on diameter or ogive. I have some Blue Bullets which some don't fit well either. The Berry's are very consistent and even ran in my Shadow at 1.150"
However, my 125 Hornady HAPs would not go into either barrel. I had the Shadow Barrel Reamed and it works just fine.
The Shadow 2 barrel is a no go as the reaming did not work since it is hardened.
So, I have been shortening my HAPs from 1.100" to 1.075" and they run just fine.
But now having to go back and run 10,000 loaded bullets through my Dillon is not high on my list. I did run 1000 through to try and shoot and they run fine.
I may send my barrel in to Patriot if I get lazy or don't want to change my loads.
You might want to try different bullets - Berry's or send it in.
I do love my Shadow 2 though, the stippling is fantastic.
Good luck.