Thanks for the input. I know for a true custom gun I will need to spend much more, but I just want something a little on the inexpensive side right now, and then down the road I can expand. I will check out the STI Spartans, and Taurus PT1911. I know a local Gander Mountain had a Kimber Custom a while back but that was selling for up in the 9's, it fit in my hand like a dream though!
What is the reason for going with the .38 or the .40 be? For the reduced recoil? just curious.
Thanks again to all for your input.