Hi, I'm new here;this is my first post. As a member of the small hands club, I can sympathise with you.
I recently bought a Kimber TLE II. The Pistol shot flawlessly but the trigger reach was about 3/4 of an inch too long to what I usually use in the 1911. I was shooting a GI .45 my father left me.
I took the easy way out. After I had about 500 rounds through the Kimber with no malfunctions, I sent it back to them to get the "small hands package".
The cost was $209 plus shipping. They installed a short trigger, ultra thin wooden grips and an Ed Brown safety grip that sits higher and deeper than the original grip.
The Kimber fits my hands perfectly now. I have over 500 more rounds fired with no malfunctions since the modification.
I probably could have saved some money if I ordered the small hands package when I first ordered the pistol through my dealer; Kimber sent back the original grips, trigger and safety grip when they returned the pistol to me. It was about a 5 working day turn around time.
If that's too steep for your wallet, then try thin grips and a short trigger.
Good Luck