LOL best response so far is obviously RGKeller
really appreciate all the feedback. Wife and I are on 15th year and I've taught her to skydive, rock climb, scuba and ride a harley. I'll figure it out eventually.
What does seem to be working is I taught her the form. She's got it. Now shes going to just dial it in on her own. She'll get there no doubt.
Now if I could train her to cook, life will be good