Please excuse the length of this post... I am new to shooting competitively, have shot in 4 competitions of different types so far, and I am not sure what to make of this last competition.
As some background, I have been shooting for a few years and have been to many trainings and have several certifications (Active shooter, Conceal-carry, defensive pistol, hunter's ed, RSO). I am very comfortable handling a pistol, and pretty comfortable handling a shotgun and rifle- I do stop and think things through the first time I fire rifle/shotgun at competition, as they are not as instinctive to me as pistol is.
I wanted to share this because I participated in a 3-gun competition, and the RO treated me significantly different throughout every CoF.
This was my 2nd event there. I did have a new rifle and the scope was not quite sighted in, and I ended up using my BUS to participate.
He would not let me put a mag in the pistol unless it was holstered (and I had always done admin reloads out of the holsters before that, in every class, every certification, and it felt very strange to me).
He also would not let me touch my unloaded and clear-bore-indicated guns while in the racks. I had wanted to put a sling on my rifle, and I left it alone when he directed me not to touch it.
When we were running the CoF, he would give me direction and tell me not to do this or that, and in one case he completely reversed what he said about a particular shooting position from one CoF to the next.
All other competitors were freely doing the things he told me not to do, such as making decisions about shooting their CoF, picking up unloaded guns to show each other different parts/features, or to simply get them ready for their CoF (such as managing optics or preparing to use another competitor's gun for their CoF), etc...
Is there a point when the RO can hinder actions without there being a safety issue or violation, DQ, etc... and how should I address these concerns in the future? I feel like in the least, I was not given the opportunity to participate without interference, but I do not want to be disrespectful RO.
Any advice? Thank you!