I'm sure this question have been asked and discussed many times on this board, but I guess what I've found were not specific to the question I have in mind or pertaining to my personal experience. However I'll be gladly receiving any link for redirection if it has been addressed.
Obviously recoil management is one of the top topics and broadly discussed to that almost anywhere I searched on web it touched on this subject. In summary what appeared to me the recoil seems to be best managed through wrist locking, forearm effort through applying torque to gripping (Vogel et al), plus stance depending on the size and strength of the person. Albeit the advice is very generic and abstract, I've been taught and figured a specific method in gripping to counter the recoil. Despite the gripping is generally aligned with 60/40 or 70/30 between support hand and strong hand, the method specifically requires the strong hand pinky finger to engage for several purpose, 1. counter the muzzle uplifting during recoil, 2. somehow it's the only way to enable the wrist locking on the strong hand in my experience. 3. the natural force of pinky will also apply a torque that force the beaver as high as possible which also helps recoil control;
On the support hand side, the thumb is actually not encouraged to apply force on the frame, neither up or down. This is in contrary of many custom frame seen stippled in the area of where support hand thumb rest (implying force), or even in open gun what some would mount a panel angled purposely for support hand thumb to press down.
While this method seems to be working and effective in my experience I also understand my novice experience is far from being proven for the correct method especially I've not heard of it in expert opinions or even have seen counter evidence (e.g. thumb rest stippling). Would anyone on this board mind to offer advice before I really invest in efforts to reinforce the muscle memory? Many thanks.