I know what you are going thru. I did the same thing 10 years ago. My wife had bilateral mastectomys, went thru chemo and radiation the following year. Everything turn out well and she has been okay since. The best advise that I had recieved at the time from one of her doctor collegues was in three parts: support and understanding, support and understanding, and support and understanding. Mood swings very, attitudes very. Just try to understand what she's going thru and support it. You Have To Help Her survive....Two weeks ago I was told that I have non Hodgkin's lymphoma and I'm starting chemo next Tuesday. Guess who got the lecture on "suport and understanding.......
Call or email me if I can help you support your wife.
Keith