My concern here is not the "reload", but an issue with my XDM
The consensus here is that it is not an issue with my XDM.
It is not an issue with the XDM. The brass would not fire form as shown if it was out of battery. This is the result of an issue with your load, and your reloading knowledge base / techniques.4.4 is the max load for a 124 loaded out to 1.150. Quickload shows pressure of 28K PSI with 4.5 GR 231 under a 124 MG JHP loaded to 1.15. When you shorten the OAL, pressure increases. This is exacerbated when you are using fast powders and cases without lots of extra volume. Reducing OAL to 1.090 spikes pressure up to 38K PSI - in excess of +P pressures.
My press doesn't hold tolerances +- .001 OAL or .05 GR. I doubt yours does. So if you end up with a load at 1.080 and 4.6 GR (normal variation) Quickload shows pressure goes up in excess of 41K PSI.
You need to use a lighter charge, a longer OAL, or a slower powder. Or this will happen again. You're lucky it was good quality brass and not a piece of AMERC or you'd be picking up parts of the frame and mag from the floor.
Thanks for the info.
Your estimate for what's +p is low. Below is from Wiki.
But either way the easiest way to build some cushion back in is to go back to two separate loads for each 9mm
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overpressure_ammunition
SAAMI specifications for common +P cartridges are as follows: Cartridge Standard pressure +P pressure Notes 9 mm Luger 35,000 38,500 10% increase .38 Special 17,000 18,500 9% increase .45 ACP 21,000 23,000 9.5% increase .38 Auto 26,500 36,500 38% increase to make .38 Super .45 Colt 14,000 27,500 96.4% increase, For use in certain modern revolvers and lever rifles .257 Roberts 54,000 58,000 7.5% increase The +P+ designation is not currently used by the SAAMI, but is used by some manufacturers to designate loads that exceed the +P SAAMI specification. One source lists the 9 × 19 mm +P+ loading as having a pressure of 42,000 psi, an 18% increase over the standard pressure of 35,000 psi, and the .38 Special +P+ as 22,000, a 29% increase over the standard pressure.[5]