Some good feedback fellas!
let me put some things back out there...
I do like the older 1100's with the heavier 20 on a 12 frame will improve perceived recoil - the drawback being no 3" shells - which brings me back to the 11-87 Sporting Youth in 20. Are there any off-setting concerns I should know about with the latter?
Brian, you mentioned having both and them, and their balancing differently... would you share with us how yours are set up and what you like, dislike about each?
Jesse, you do bring up some good points. I think the primary utilization answer is easy, as I hopefully will be at many more competitions, rather than home invasions. While i agree that having a 12 feels better mentally in a HD situ. I think it's just that, a feeling... If I or she misses with either gauge, it'll still be a miss, and if we hit, well the BG should be similarly demotivated. If you can't tell, I'm fairly stuck on a 20, and getting it set up well, rather than moving to a 12. FWIW, I have a Beretta Silver Mallard in 12, so it's not like I am anti-12 nor anti-Benelli familia. I just like the idea of a 20 for comp and HD and would like to execute it well.
As to my state of denial, I think you present an excellent assumption with the dual-use justification - which I may yet employ, but alas, If I were to go 12, it would be an FN SLP or an SX2. I'm just not sold yet on the value niche that Benelli presents - hence why I bought a Beretta in the past. Let's just say I have more Land's End shirts than Polo shirts, and I make this analogy with no disdain for the latter, just that I prefer the value presented by the former.
Thanks all, keep the thoughts a flyin'