I have cadet sized hands myself, there's a technique called repeated muscle repetition. Still working on it myself :smiley:. aka lots of dry fire, but I would work in some live fire as well because you want to validate that you are indexing the gun correctly as well, which is hard to validate with simple dry fire itself. It makes sure you are practicing correctly.
A drill I have used is using a target at 7 yards away, fire 2 shots, reload fire 2 shots. Or 1 shot, reload 1 shot. Fast enough to get an alpha, while maintaining a smooth reload. Some video of that drill I did.
Thanks for the link. I have been watching and reading as much as possible. I think some of this stuff will come to me over time.