Oh, I'll tell her, but we both work better with the 'better to ask forgiveness than permission' -- don't get me started on the china cabinet! Since I was extremely gracious about that one, which despite the 0% financing will actually cost me many more hours at work ($$ = time at work) to pay off, I figure this one can wait until I can show her what I got before she needs to know actually how I paid for it.
Actually, that's the best way to do it:
Me: "Look what I got!"
She: "Oh, no... which card did you put it on?"
Me: "None of them, honey! Don't worry, you see I got this check..."
She: "My hero" (smooch)
Or something like that.
It's not like she asked me to vacuum the house or anything...
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