Wow Chris. That was well put. I think your right.
During dry fire with a loose grip or uncomfortable bad grip the sights move down and to the right. Although I can dry fire fast not making them move.
I think I'm afraid of the gun (bang)??. And I know there is tension in my face. I'm left handed right eye dominant. So I squint my right eye to make sure I'm focusing with it for the first shot. Then open both till mag change. I think with more practice ill be more confident I'm raising gun to the correct eye
Guess its time to get to work. Thanks for more great advise.